I used the new thrust washers that came in the kit. I did take it apart again and put the old washers on the side gears. I can at least turn the axle now, but still seems tight. I would just use the old washers for the spiders too, but one of them has the starts of a hairline crack in it. I thought these kits were supposed to be an easy swap out, but like everything else I try to do on this thing anymore, it's turning into a headache.
Thanks for the response Flint.