Some fantastic life advice!
As far as I'm concerned, as long as she's not upset/doesn't try to tell me I can't work on cars, I don't care too much whether she's into cars or not. I mean I like cars a lot, but there IS more to meYeller wrote: ↑Thu Feb 02, 2023 8:12 pmSome fantastic life advice!
I found a pretty good screening technique. I used to assemble engines in the dining room in my apartment. If they were appalled, they got a nice escort to the door. If they were intrigued, they’d get to get to spend some time. Then I had one come over that not only was intrigued, but knew that it was a 360 dodge and we spent the evening completing it together, I was a goner, hook, line, and sinker. That was over 30 years ago and she’s still here and supporting our adventure together.
I like it! That takes a fair bit of knowledge to recognize an engine in detail like that. I can see why you were smitten! Evidently, your decision making matrix was right on. Congratulations for finding one of the right ones... it seems she found the same. Reminded me of my first apartment at 17, built a Triumph T100R hardtail in the living room on a couple of bed sheets over the carpet. My parents were not impressed. Very few ladies came over and those that did were, as you say, appalled.Some fantastic life advice!
I found a pretty good screening technique. I used to assemble engines in the dining room in my apartment. If they were appalled, they got a nice escort to the door. If they were intrigued, they’d get to get to spend some time. Then I had one come over that not only was intrigued, but knew that it was a 360 dodge and we spent the evening completing it together, I was a goner, hook, line, and sinker. That was over 30 years ago and she’s still here and supporting our adventure together.
She does good work, I was impressed with the final product as well. Several shots were in gray. I was able to sneak a few in color!That's a great photo! I like the photographers decision to go gray scale.
I think you have healthy expectations. Not to get too deep but like you said, there is more. A partnership is all about give and take. Show some interest in her and her wants and desires and she'll be yours forever and will be supportive of yours. It took me 20 years and a ton of life experience (heartache and stupid decisions) to figure this out. I'm not done yet... still enjoying the journey with a lot more wisdom and humility.As far as I'm concerned, as long as she's not upset/doesn't try to tell me I can't work on cars, I don't care too much whether she's into cars or not. I mean I like cars a lot, but there IS more to me
That is an awesome story though
Yeller wrote: ↑Thu Feb 02, 2023 8:12 pm
I found a pretty good screening technique. I used to assemble engines in the dining room in my apartment. If they were appalled, they got a nice escort to the door. If they were intrigued, they’d get to get to spend some time. Then I had one come over that not only was intrigued, but knew that it was a 360 dodge and we spent the evening completing it together, I was a goner, hook, line, and sinker. That was over 30 years ago and she’s still here and supporting our adventure together.
Thanks. I've been told I'll do better in college, and from what I can tell, it seems to be true, but we'll just see how it goes.Kowpie wrote: ↑Fri Feb 03, 2023 10:02 amI think you have healthy expectations. Not to get too deep but like you said, there is more. A partnership is all about give and take. Show some interest in her and her wants and desires and she'll be yours forever and will be supportive of yours. It took me 20 years and a ton of life experience (heartache and stupid decisions) to figure this out. I'm not done yet... still enjoying the journey with a lot more wisdom and humility.As far as I'm concerned, as long as she's not upset/doesn't try to tell me I can't work on cars, I don't care too much whether she's into cars or not. I mean I like cars a lot, but there IS more to me
That is an awesome story though
May God bless your journey, Sierra.